You have to live your life according to what comforts you, not what the rest of your family thinks you ought to be doing.
Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.
Never put off until tomorrow what you can do the day after tomorrow.
If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude. Don't complain.
It's not the load that breaks you down, it's the way you carry it.